tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1106278182709610981.post6623868466571509227..comments2014-11-03T04:23:50.641-08:00Comments on Ultra running, life and cancer: How do I make us whole again?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11418664844847195753noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1106278182709610981.post-55691789430535060162014-08-25T17:30:12.884-07:002014-08-25T17:30:12.884-07:00Thanks for your gracious reply, Tonia. That is a ...Thanks for your gracious reply, Tonia. That is a really good point that just because you are done with treatment, it does not mean that life has gone back to normal for anyone.Sharon Wanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564452243522205297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1106278182709610981.post-69794058728370390792014-08-25T13:35:19.194-07:002014-08-25T13:35:19.194-07:00Hi Sharon, I appreciate you comments. I know I did...Hi Sharon, I appreciate you comments. I know I did no choose cancer but seeng the impact on my kids has been extremely painful. The truth is that there has been a lot of impact on the whole family and I will take a while before we all go back to feeling secure. I think people think that once treatment is over, everyone is happy. We are but there is unfinished business.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11418664844847195753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1106278182709610981.post-60897231540089661882014-08-25T13:05:08.208-07:002014-08-25T13:05:08.208-07:00As far as feeling guilty and saying you are respon...As far as feeling guilty and saying you are responsible for the pain etc. just doesn't sit right with me. I know we don't know each other, but the truth is, you did not choose to get Cancer, therefore, I don't see how you would be at fault at all for the negative effects on your family. I think the line you attributed to explaining how their friends don't understand is "It isn't anyone's fault" should also apply to yourself and your family as far as how they have been impacted by your illness. It's wasn't your fault or anyone else's.Sharon Wanghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17564452243522205297noreply@blogger.com